Stress is a natural part of life, but when it becomes overwhelming, it can impact your mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. If you’re considering counselling to help manage stress, you’re taking a powerful step toward regaining balance. In addition to therapy, incorporating small, actionable techniques into your daily routine can make a big difference. Here’s how to recognise stress and manage it effectively, with insights tailored for those seeking counselling support.

Recognising the Signs of Stress
Understanding how stress shows up in your life is the first step toward managing it.
Common signs include:
Persistent feelings of anxiety or worry
Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
Irritability or frequent mood swings
Physical symptoms like tension headaches, fatigue, or digestive issues
In counselling, you can explore these symptoms more deeply, uncover the root causes, and develop strategies tailored to your unique situation.
Simple Stress-Relief Techniques to Complement Counselling
1. Practice Deep Breathing
Deep breathing is a cornerstone of stress management and a technique often recommended in therapy. It helps calm the nervous system and bring you into the present moment.
Try this exercise:
Inhale deeply through your nose for a count of four.
Hold your breath for a count of four.
Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of six.
Your counsellor can guide you in incorporating breathing exercises into your daily routine.
2. Engage in Physical Activity
Exercise is not just good for your body—it’s a proven stress reliever for your mind. Whether it’s a walk in nature, yoga, or dancing, physical activity releases endorphins that boost your mood. In therapy, you might discuss how to create a fitness routine that aligns with your lifestyle and goals.
3. Develop a Relaxation Routine
Relaxation techniques like aromatherapy, mindfulness, or journaling can complement the work you do in counselling.
For example:
Use an aromatherapy diffuser with essential oils like lavender or chamomile to create a calming environment.
Write in a guided journal to process your thoughts and emotions between therapy sessions.
Practice progressive muscle relaxation (PMR), a technique your counsellor can teach you to release physical tension.
4. Limit Overwhelm with Boundaries
Stress often arises when we take on too much. In counselling, you can learn how to set healthy boundaries, say no when needed, and prioritise what matters most. Outside of therapy, practice this by managing your schedule and setting aside time for self-care.
5. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation
Mindfulness is a skill often introduced in therapy to help manage stress and stay present. Start with just five minutes a day, focusing on your breath or a calming visualisation. Many counsellors also recommend mindfulness apps to support your practice at home.
6. Seek Support from Loved Ones
Counselling can help you strengthen your support network by improving communication and emotional connection. Outside of sessions, reach out to friends or family members to share your feelings and let them know how they can support you.
7. Stay Organised
Feeling overwhelmed by tasks can heighten stress. Work with your counsellor to identify ways to organise your responsibilities, break them into smaller steps, and tackle them one at a time. Tools like planners or apps can help you stay on track.
How Counselling Can Help You Manage Stress
While these techniques are helpful, sometimes stress requires deeper exploration and professional support.
Counselling provides:
A Safe Space to Process Emotions: Share your feelings openly without judgement.
Personalised Strategies: Develop stress-management tools tailored to your unique challenges.
Guidance on Root Causes: Understand the underlying factors contributing to your stress.
Ongoing Support: Work through life’s challenges with the help of a trained professional.
Tools to Support Your Stress-Relief Journey
To complement your counselling sessions, consider incorporating these stress-relief tools into your routine:
Aromatherapy Diffusers: Enhance relaxation with calming scents like lavender or eucalyptus.
Guided Journals: Reflect on your thoughts and emotions between therapy sessions.
Weighted Blankets: Promote relaxation and improve sleep quality with gentle pressure.
Mindfulness Apps: Access guided meditations and breathing exercises to support your progress.
Take the First Step Toward Stress Relief
If stress is impacting your daily life, counselling can provide the guidance and tools you need to feel more in control. At Pause for Counselling, I offer individual therapy sessions designed to help you manage stress and build resilience.
Contact me today at info@forcounselling.co.uk to schedule a session and start your journey toward a calmer, more balanced life.
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